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My dad called me the other day.

He has now called me on Thanksgiving Day, Christmas, after we moved, and just recently.

He can’t call out unless he has money. I used to send him a bit every month, but haven’t been able to the past few months. I feel bad about it.

Whenever I talk with my dad he’s always interested in knowing what we’re up to. He doesn’t tell me a whole lot about how he’s doing, unless I specifically ask. Then he’ll tell me about funny things or interesting things. I never hear about difficult or hurting things, or anything negative. He’s always been like that.

In one of his first letters to me, he wrote, “…most of the observations made to me have been that I must have served time before because I’m way too relaxed for someone who’s brand new.”

I get a feeling it’s not healthy to always act like everything’s okay. And I’ve always wondered if he will still be the same person after going through a prison sentence.

I work for a small company. A great company. They don’t know about my dad–I haven’t breathed a word. It’s just not something you share with everyone, at least I don’t.

The last place I worked for knew. And it actually made things easier. It made it easier when I had depressing days, and for me to be able to take time off to attend the sentencing and again to say good-bye to my dad.

But I’m afraid if I tell my current company, their view of me might change. Will the knowledge that my dad is a convict affect how they treat me, or trust me? Is there an appropriate time/way to tell them? Do I wait until my dad gets out and say I need the time off?

I’m probably thinking about this way too much….